Your Family Law Scheduling Conference

So you received the notice in the mail that we have a Scheduling Conference / Settlement Conference coming up. Let’s chat about what that means, especially for Charles, St. Mary’s and Prince George’s Counties.

A Settlement / Scheduling Conference is a way for the Court to figure out what the issues are in your case, whether any agreements have been reached, and if there are any resources needed. The Court will also set deadlines for things like discovery, and get a possible follow-up date for another conference or a trial date. Often we sit in the Magistrate’s office and chat about the issues with the Magistrate tries to see if they can help the parties come to an agreement.

If each party is represented by an attorney, a  Scheduling Conference gives them an opportunity to negotiate or work out an agreement. This is why most of the time the parties have to attend.   If we can work everything out you need to be there to say “OK” and to finalize an agreement. If there are not two attorneys and only one then the attorney may still try to negotiate or work out an agreement with the other side. Sometimes there is no working out an agreement, so you get dates and a schedule for your hearing and then off you go wondering why you even had to be there.

What to Expect

Most of the time what happens is that you and the other party get to sit in a hallway and wait for me and the other attorney to shuttle back and forth and try to make a deal. Now if there is no other attorney, you and the other side get to come into the Conference room with the Magistrate and me. Often the other side will ask questions and explain their issues and so will we. This gives the Magistrate the ability to try to help us settle. But if we cannot then we get our Court dates. Each County has their own rules on how these meetings are conducted and who gets to go into the meeting room.

St. Mary’s County If there is not an attorney on the other side, then only me and the other party get to go into the Magistrate and not both parties. The theory is that the Magistrate just wants to talk to the lawyers. Since the other side is acting as their own lawyer they get to go back. This may not seem fair, but don’t worry the party representing themselves usually ends up hurting their case.

Charles County If one of the parties is not represented by an attorney then both parties get to go into the meeting with the Magistrate.

Prince George’s County We sit in a waiting area and wait to get called. This can take some patience. Then once we are called, both attorneys and clients go back into a room with a case manager to discuss the issues, pick dates. If mediation might be appropriate we will have to get evaluated by the Family Division to see if it is appropriate. Sometimes if there are protective orders they will not refer to mediation.

If you’ve got an ongoing family law case and are in need of advice, take a look at our Free Legal Consumer Guides On Divorce or Child Support & Custody.

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